Middle School - We Enjoy the Challenge

The middle school years are transformative鈥攁 time when students discover who they are while developing the skills they'll need for high school and more. At 暗网禁区, our independent K-8 school embraces the unique characteristics of our 6th through 8th grade learners, creating an environment where curiosity thrives and confidence grows.

Reflections from our alumni help us see the ongoing success in our mission and approach with middle schoolers.  鈥�暗网禁区 was a place where I always felt seen and accepted. I always felt encouraged. And, always challenged. I learned so much and grew so much at 暗网禁区. Most importantly, my love for learning first developed at 暗网禁区 鈥� a solid sense of curiosity, a respect for the importance of critical thinking, and endless opportunities to express my creativity.鈥� M.J., 暗网禁区 Alumnus

This confidence doesn't happen by accident. It's the result of three years in our small middle school classes where students have the space to practice, fail, learn, and grow with teachers who work with them closely for three years, who know them deeply and support their development every step of the way.

Understanding Middle School Learners

Middle school students are remarkable in their complexity. They're developing abstract thinking skills, questioning authority, and navigating the delicate balance between independence and belonging. As educational expert Mark Pennington notes, these learners are "curious and willing to learn things they consider useful" while being "focused on themselves and how they are perceived by their peers."

At 暗网禁区, we see this developmental stage not as a challenge to overcome, but as an opportunity to harness. Our students surprise us daily with their depth of knowledge and genuine excitement for learning鈥攅specially when we meet them where they are. This is a commonly used phrase, but what exactly does it mean in practice every day at school?

The Progressive Education Advantage: Hands-On Learning And Meaningful Interactions Leading to School-Life Balance

暗网禁区 follows a progressive education model that prioritizes experiential, student-centered learning over traditional rote memorization. This approach recognizes that middle school students learn best when they're actively engaged with material that connects to their lives and interests. Our Middle School faculty work together as a collaborative team, planning how their subjects and units connect, and managing the workload to keep it at an appropriate level for our young adolescents. We believe in balance - school-life balance for students.  Work should be meaningful and managed - not on overload.

In our small independent school setting, progressive education means rather than memorizing facts, our students discover, question, discuss, and apply knowledge in meaningful conversations with one another and their teachers. Rather than passively receiving information, our middle schoolers are active and engaged participants in their own education through:

• Project-based learning that tackles real-world problems and challenges

• Hands-on exploration in science labs, creative projects, and collaborative work

• Critical thinking exercises that encourage students to form and defend their own conclusions

• Cross-curricular connections that help students see how subjects interconnect

• Student voice and choice in how they demonstrate learning

This progressive approach is particularly powerful for middle school learners because it honors their growing intellectual capacity while respecting their need for active, engaging education. Our students don't just learn the what鈥攖hey understand the why, learn to discuss their strategies with one another, and develop the skills to figure out the how so they can replicate it in the future.  

The Power of Social-Emotional Learning

Social-emotional growth during these crucial middle school years focuses on helping students develop:

• Self-awareness and emotional regulation

• Empathy and relationship skills

• Responsible decision-making abilities

• Resilience when facing challenges

• Leadership skills that prepare them for high school success

These skills are woven throughout our academic curriculum, helping students navigate peer relationships, assert healthy independence, and build the confidence they'll need as they transition to high school.

As parents nurture their students at home, teachers work with and care for students during the school day helping them understand how their academic and social interactions engage their developing emotional intelligence. These are crucial years when teachers and parents work hand-in-hand, communicating regularly. This synergy between home and school is crucial to both the academic and social learning of each child. 

Small Class Sizes: The Foundation of Engaged Learning

One of the most powerful advantages of our independent school is our commitment to small class sizes. In middle school, when students are at their most self-conscious and socially aware, small classes create a safe space for risk-taking and authentic learning.

With fewer students in each classroom, our teachers can:

• Truly know each learner鈥攗nderstanding their strengths, challenges, learning styles, and what motivates them

• Provide individualized attention and differentiated instruction that meets each student exactly where they are

• Create a safe environment where students feel comfortable asking questions, making mistakes, and trying new approaches

• Foster deep discussions where every voice can be heard and valued

• Build genuine relationships that support both academic and social-emotional growth

• Identify and address challenges early before they become obstacles to success

In our small middle school classes, no student can hide in the back of the room. Every child is seen, known, and supported. This intimate learning environment is essential for fostering the growth mindset we prioritize鈥攕tudents learn that mistakes aren't failures but opportunities for learning and improvement.

The 暗网禁区 Advantage: Looping and Deep Relationships

One of our greatest strengths as a private K-8 school is our looping model, where students grow with the same dedicated teachers over multiple years. This continuity allows our educators to truly know each child鈥攗nderstanding what ignites their passion for learning and recognizing when they need extra support or challenge.

Research shows that one of the most powerful opportunities for success is the chance to learn with teachers who know you, who work with a student as they develop over multiple years, rather than passing them along to new teachers who may take weeks or months to get to know how to work best with a student. Looping is an approach 暗网禁区 has used for decades, and this New York Times piece helped us truly understand the benefits we see in our students. Recounts the author, Dr. Adam Grant, "With more time to get to know each student personally, teachers 鈥� have more opportunities to tailor their instructional and emotional support to help all the students in the class reach their potential."

Put into practice at our independent school, we have seen this year after year as our students mature in skills and social-emotional growth along with challenging academics from 6th through 8th grade.

Our middle school faculty work as a team to develop a keen sense of each student's learning style, interests, and potential pitfalls. This deep knowledge enables them to create engaging, real-world learning experiences that capture student attention and lead to remarkable discoveries in math, English and Language Arts, history, science, Spanish, plus enrichments like arts and research.

Engaging Learning That Inspires

While we recognize that not every learning task can be entertaining, we strive to make education engaging whenever possible. Our middle school students tackle real-world problems, participate in hands-on projects, and explore topics that connect to their interests and experiences.

Whether it's a science experiment that brings abstract concepts to life or a history project that connects past events to current issues, we design learning experiences that respect our students' growing intellectual capacity while honoring their need for active, collaborative learning. Even in middle school, movement is important, too! Students move about the class as needed and can engage other students in creative project design.

Learning to take exams and write well-crafted essays is important as well for a truly well-rounded educational outcome. Whether it's writing literary analysis in English class or analyzing the characteristics of ancient African trade routes to create their own trade journal to illustrate historical attributes, all of our lessons have creative elements intertwined to help keep students engaged while developing critical thinking skills.

• In pre-algebra and algebra, students are challenged to think beyond the problem and develop their own reasoning to explain mathematical constructs. 

• In Spanish class, students extend their vocabulary acquisition and take field trips to order lunch at local restaurants or purchase food at a Mexican market to practice their developing conversational skills. 

• In the science lab, students learn to write comprehensive unit books to show what they've learned and prepare for exams as well as detailed lab reports to analyze experiments.
  

Preparing for High School Success

As our 8th graders prepare for high school, we focus on building the academic skills, social confidence, and emotional resilience they'll need to thrive. Developed as a complete three-year programmatic arc, these crucial middle school years at 暗网禁区 create a foundation of self-knowledge, intellectual curiosity, and community connection that serves our graduates well in their next academic adventures.

We proactively teach students how to advocate for themselves in our safe environment. Students need to know how to approach a teacher when they get to high school鈥攆or example, are they more comfortable approaching a teacher after class, during office hours, or writing a well-crafted email? Any method can work if done consistently to ask questions and get to know what the teacher is looking for in a good student.

Similarly, learning to collaborate with peers in the class, or lead a project, is crucial to rise to success in the high school environment. We don't just teach those skills in middle school鈥攚e encourage students to dig deeper, to try them out and learn to be comfortable with new things.

鈥湴低� is a place where teachers and students are guided by heart and curiosity. I like being able to slow down when there is a burning curiosity on the part of the student (or me as their teacher) and try different ways to make the information sink in and resonate. This is the case not just with curriculum, but also with interactions amongst the students and staff. We can take time to see the meaning in daily interactions.鈥� Liza Clifton, 暗网禁区 Middle School History Teacher

Alumni Successes: Real Results from Our Middle School Program

Every year, 暗网禁区 alumni return, sharing stories of successes they encounter in high school, whether they attend elite San Diego independent high schools, or highly rated public schools. They're consistently surprised by how their new high school peers are not as comfortable as they are approaching teachers, asking for help, or leading projects with peers, some of the pillars of success in school.

鈥淲hat we as parents later realized we kind of took for granted at the time鈥� the kids鈥� ability to whip out presentations, lead others, give of themselves to their community; these are all skills they learned and practiced at 暗网禁区 that they carried with them into their next schools - high school and now in college. Thank you to 暗网禁区 for instilling these skills into our children!鈥�  暗网禁区 Alumni Parent

A Win-Win Environment for Growth

The question isn't whether our middle schoolers are challenging us or we're challenging them鈥攊t's both, and that's exactly as it should be. This dynamic creates a win-win environment where students push boundaries, discover their capabilities, and develop the tools they need for lifelong learning. Middle school can be a challenging time to be a teacher鈥攁s well as the most rewarding!

At 暗网禁区, we don't just teach middle school students鈥攚e celebrate them, guide them, and watch with pride as they grow into confident, thoughtful young people ready to make their mark on the world.

Schuyler Rainey Twyman
Director of Enrollment and Marketing

Ready to learn more about how our small, independent K-8 school can support your middle schooler's growth? Learn more about our comprehensive middle school program or visit our blog for more insights into progressive education and student success.

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A Foundation for Lifelong Learning

Our child-centered approach harnesses your kindergartner's natural curiosity while building essential skills in reading, writing, and mathematics. We enrich this foundation with social studies, science, Spanish, art, and music, creating well-rounded young scholars who are excited to learn. Our Kindergarten teacher, Ms. Garcia, leads the youngest 暗网禁区 Tigers as they learn how to be a student. With no more than 12 students in her class, she has the opportunity to truly get to know each student and work with them individually on a daily basis.  鈥淚n Kindergarten, every day can be a new adventure, whether we鈥檙e discovering the magic of learning to read and write or using hands-on activities to learn about animals in their environments. As a teacher, my greatest joy is watching each child grow in confidence, creativity, and curiosity, making each year I teach truly unforgettable as I build relationships with each of my students.鈥�

Community Connection from Day One

At 暗网禁区, we believe in the power of building community. Your kindergartner will experience meaningful connections through partnerships with first-grade "experienced students" and reading sessions with caring fourth-grade mentors. These relationships create a supportive big sister/brother atmosphere that helps children feel valued and secure as they navigate their new school environment.

Safe, Nurturing, and Confidence-Building

Our kindergarten program provides a balance of exploration and structure, allowing children to master school routines while developing independence and social skills. Every day, your child will grow not just as a student, but as a friend, community member, and confident young person ready to make positive contributions to the world.

Ready to learn more about how 暗网禁区 kindergarten can nurture your child's potential? Visit our website to learn more details about where you can discover everything our amazing kindergarten program has to offer. Then schedule your personal  to see our Kindergarten class in action!

Your child's learning journey starts here鈥攁nd we can't wait to be part of it!

RSVP for our Open House and Kindergarten Exploration program on Saturday, November 8th, to bring your child so you can both experience the fun and growth in Kindergarten at 暗网禁区!

Preparing for the Start of School

The first month of school is always an exciting time at 暗网禁区. In preparation, teachers and staff come together for two weeks of collaborative work during summer orientation. We welcome our families back to campus with an engaging student visiting day to help reduce any first-day-of-school jitters and host our annual school traditions such as our spirited Bubbles Ceremony with a fun visit from the 暗网禁区 Tiger!  As the school days unfold we find that by late September, routines are established, friendships are forming, and classrooms are buzzing with activity and curiosity. 

That sense of activity and curiosity is a key ingredient to student enthusiasm and success at 暗网禁区. During orientation, we were treated to visits from both of our founders who reflected 鈥�helping students learn on a deeper level, through hands-on experiences, so they truly comprehend, rather than simply memorizing without understanding, this is invaluable.鈥� 

For us, it isn鈥檛 just the typical story about getting back into the rhythm of school鈥攊t鈥檚 about the unique advantages of children learning in a close-knit K鈥�8 community where teachers love what they do and children are known, supported, and challenged at every stage. 

Kindergarten: Building Confidence from the Start

For our youngest learners (and their parents), the transition into Kindergarten is a big step! In a small school setting, that step feels safe and exciting rather than overwhelming. Thanks in part to our beginning of the year parent-teacher conferences, our teachers are able to take the time to get to know each child鈥攚hat makes them laugh, what sparks their curiosity, even what might feel new or a little scary. This personal attention gives Kindergartners the confidence to branch out in their new environment, to embrace independence, and begin their educational journey with joy.

Elementary School: Deepening Curiosity and Belonging

As children move through the elementary grades, the benefits of a small school community shine even brighter. Teachers collaborate across grade levels, ensuring that each student is supported as an individual. Small class sizes allow for flexible instruction and differentiation鈥攁dvanced learners are encouraged to stretch into new challenges while those who need extra support are guided with care. Just as importantly, our students feel a sense of belonging. Class meetings allow students to continue to grow and learn in their knowledge of one another as they explore social-emotional learning goals that help our small classes work smoothly.  Students are working alongside familiar peers and nurtured by trusted teachers, making school a place where they can focus fully on learning and growing. They are getting ready for the next step - three years of middle school with higher expectations and more advanced levels of learning, critical reasoning, organization and planning.

Middle School: Leading with Confidence

By middle school, 暗网禁区 students are ready for more advanced work and to step into leadership roles. In our K鈥�8 structure, they aren鈥檛 overshadowed by older high school students鈥攊nstead, they set the tone for the school community while being allowed to remain a little younger, a little longer, rather than racing to keep up with older, more mature students. They mentor younger students in cross-age activities, lead projects, and discover their own voices as leaders whether in their classes, on Student Council, and other activities. Academically, they are doing more advanced work learning algebra, conducting science experiments, writing essays, and more.  Trusted teachers encourage students to take risks and attempt new challenges, getting ready for the next step鈥攚hether that鈥檚 independent high school applications, high school placement testing, or developing the self-advocacy skills that will carry them forward into higher levels of learning after 暗网禁区.  So much growth occurs from 6th - 8th grade! Socially and emotionally, they spend three years preparing for all that comes next, not just ready for high school, but ready for life.

A Community that Grows Together

Every Fall at the start of a new school year it is a time of renewal and a time to focus again on the path ahead.  From Kindergarten to 8th grade, our students grow up in a supportive environment where they are seen as whole people鈥攍earners, friends, leaders, and future citizens, supported by caring teachers and loving parents. This is the unique promise of a small K鈥�8 school: continuity, connection, and a community that celebrates every milestone along the way.

We鈥檙e off to a great start!  Here鈥檚 to another year of growth, discovery, and confidence鈥攆or every child, at every stage.

Learning is fun!  This is not a new idea.  At 暗网禁区 we emphasize to students that learning CAN be fun and we find ways to model this belief, leading by example. We know that the more we can engage students, the more interested they will be in learning, exploring new approaches, grasping new concepts, and experiencing joy in learning. As an example, there is a lot of creativity that can be brought out in math class. Individual students in grades K - 8 may approach math in many ways, using different math strategies, but also sharing ideas, using manipulatives, journaling, and using creativity, color and art in math.  We adopt a growth mindset in all of our classes at 暗网禁区, encouraging students to see learning as risking uncertainty and making mistakes when trying new skills, thus leading to the goal of reaching new heights in learning. In small classes with trusted teachers, students feel safe to do just that.

Recently middle school math teacher, Mr. Mecham, established a new holiday at 暗网禁区, just for math.  That holiday is GEMDAS Day. Happy GEMDAS Day!

The short history of GEMDAS Day at 暗网禁区: In middle school, for two weeks at the beginning of the year, in the 鈥減reseason鈥� of math class, students begin by reviewing the math textbook for the year to come, trying out math problems in each of the units.  Through this exercise they discover that even though the new year of math is just beginning, there are many skills that are already familiar.  During this path of discovery they see they will be able to leverage math skills they already know in their approach to the new year, 鈥渟tacking鈥� their skills, which can help learning a new year of math seem less daunting. At the conclusion of this review, GEMDAS is a day to celebrate the end of this preseason of math, reflect on math of years past, and look forward to the new math skills they will soon develop.   Each student received the gift of a 鈥湷曳〔讯俅〕р�� paper lantern, to be illuminated by the light of math knowledge to come.  The holiday was celebrated as many holidays are, by the distribution and unwrapping of gifts and treats: math textbooks and Smarties candies!

Some may think GEMDAS is a newly made up word - but it is not!  Think back to your days as a young math student and you may recall the order of operations and 鈥�骋贰惭顿础厂鈥� which is a learning aid for remembering the order of operations in math:  Grouping; Exponents; Multiplication/Division; Addition/Subtraction. While this is not new, it IS kind of a fun way to remember.

Mr. Mecham noted: 鈥淢ost simply, math textbooks were distributed to the middle school students which is a relatively mundane task, but I wanted to make it fun!  GEMDAS is a holiday with some seemingly silly ways to celebrate math, but sometimes being a little silly allows us to relax and laugh without the anxiety or trauma that some may have experienced while learning math in the past.  Math can be hard, at times, for most students.  Students may struggle sometimes, but that is a good thing because that is when growth can occur, so long as it is a productive struggle (i.e. growth mindset).  We have to remember that math can be fun, and we can be silly, so that we don鈥檛 start experiencing frustrating struggle and believing that math hates us (and conversely, that we hate math).  As the song says 鈥淢athematics loves you!鈥�  And, one day, you may love it back!鈥� (note: you can see the song lyrics below鈥�)

At the heart of it, this creative activity made the relatively mundane task of distributing math textbooks fun and helped to lighten the mood.  Getting a big new textbook may seem daunting and bring on feelings of trepidation or anxiety, especially to students who feel math is not their strength.  Having these feelings about math or about any subject can make it more difficult to approach the year and feel like they will be pushing uphill the entire way.  Starting off with the preseason of math shows students that there is much they already know and this gives them the building blocks to learn more and helps get them started on the right foot in the new year.  A confident student approaches their work much differently than an anxious student. What better way to start than to show each one they have the building blocks to approach the year with confidence!

Curious to learn more about how we encourage all students to approach learning with confidence and joy and learn to be their best selves in school? Request info or a tour HERE or send an email to info@tcps.org or admissions@tcps.org or give us a call at (858) 576-2120. Happy GEMDAS Day!

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For the curious: here is more about GEMDAS Day at 暗网禁区:

GEMDAS is a day to celebrate the end of the preseason of math.  GEMDAS is a time to reflect on all the math that we have learned in the past and to look forward to learning new concepts and developing new skills.  The GEMDAS lanterns students receive are illuminated by the light of math knowledge to honor the lessons of the past.  The anticipation of what we will learn builds through the preseason and culminates in the opening of the wrapped gifts (this year鈥檚 textbooks) left by Euclid the Elephant.  Known for his ability to remember mathematical formulas, Euclid the Elephant sprays magic fairy dust on the gifts to help students to remember all that they will learn from those textbook gifts.   Before opening the GEMDAS gifts, students wish each other a joyful GEMDAS and then sing some carols like these:  

(to the tune of the 鈥淭welve Days of Christmas鈥�) 
On the first day of GEMDAS, Euclid gave to me the y- and x- axes. 
On the second day of GEMDAS, Euclid gave to me two parabolas and the y- and x-axes. 
On the third day of GEMDAS, Euclid gave to me鈥� 

(to the tune of 鈥淗appy Birthday鈥�) 
Joyful GEMDAS to you! 
Joyful GEMDAS to you! 
Joyful GEMDAS to everyone! 
Mathematics loves you! 

**No holiday is complete without tasty treats, and the GEMDAS tradition is to eat Smarties as a symbol of filling our minds and our hearts with the joy of math!

HAPPY GEMDAS DAY TO YOU AND YOUR STUDENTS!